tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-274583065108645128.post773606677496822381..comments2023-10-28T13:38:54.384+01:00Comments on *the.lifestyle.artist*: Only love is real...or maybe not?the.lifestyle.artisthttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13031560397478922935noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-274583065108645128.post-34221368774636461562009-08-03T22:04:42.126+01:002009-08-03T22:04:42.126+01:00Love is out there for you and you will find it whe...Love is out there for you and you will find it when the timing is right. I've had a broken heart and now I am gifted with an incredible man in my life. Games can play games, but when love is right it is hopefully there to stay. I wish you love sweetie!Sierra https://www.blogger.com/profile/00915109851341043600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-274583065108645128.post-52031065067228051402009-07-28T10:59:08.924+01:002009-07-28T10:59:08.924+01:00I think the issue comes in when we expect love to ...I think the issue comes in when we expect love to be a simple case clossed kind of thing. we grow up to believe that love coms into your life and everything else falls in to place (the ending of so many fairy tails: "...and they lived happily ever after...").<br />what we should have been taught, i think, is how to handle and mantain love once we have it in its many forms. think about it - it becomes abused when we, because w feel so much of it for an individual, when we fail to set up boundries and understand that even though you may love them so much, you are not willing to do certain things. yes sure lve should have no limits right? but you tell me: what happens when we give our all to that friend who just seems to take and take and take without giving? we may love then and be willing to do all that but the abuse comes in when they just take and fail to realize that we too need to get some of that love back... result? pain and disillusionment in the sense that this feeling that was once so easy going and so grate has now become draining and a burden... (i have been there and i know).<br /><br />we throw this love word around so easy yet question is: are we able to handel it? the idea of unconditional love even seems a bit over whelming - even when directed to ourselves.<br /><br />ofcause i could totaly have it all wrong...Randzohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03972320155693300115noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-274583065108645128.post-72995095036827804112009-07-27T20:20:26.359+01:002009-07-27T20:20:26.359+01:00Beautifully written. Just beautiful.Beautifully written. Just beautiful.Alihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18290197769653336102noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-274583065108645128.post-24558162150863849892009-07-26T21:53:02.969+01:002009-07-26T21:53:02.969+01:00I would say the last 3-4 years have been a revelat...I would say the last 3-4 years have been a revelation for me. I'll be honest and say I did get a bit wild, got hurt and questioned the whole concept of love, but like you I went looking for the whole meaning. I just read a book that put all the pieces of this puzzle into place and I can completely relate to what you posted. The other day I had an epiphany that this whole love thing is concocted in our heads, okay some of it. Sometimes we see things that aren't there. There are so many things in the media painting this beautiful picture of love and not everybody gets that picture.<br /><br />Like you I think there is love out there, but you have to look for it and not settle. I think I'm rambling.Kimolisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16624029898830661332noreply@blogger.com